Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! You’re probably knee deep in wedding plans, but you should also turn your attention to planning a once-in-a-lifetime honeymoon. Here are some do’s and don’ts for planning your first trip as a married couple:
Don’t rush: Planning for a wedding is an incredibly stressful experience. Between booking the venue, and the DJ, ordering the food, sending out all the invites, getting the dresses and tuxes, and setting up tables, you can become so stressed from the wedding that you might want to rush straight into the honeymoon for a much-needed break. This causes couples to often plan their honeymoons so they can hop on the plane out right after the wedding ends. Instead, try to slow down and take your time. You don’t have to leave right when your wedding ends; you could wait weeks or even months afterwards until the time is just right for you.
Do ask for advice: It can be tempted to take a DIY-approach to your honeymoon. After handling all of the other people you had to rely on for the wedding – the bridesmaids, groomsmen, caterers, and even the guests – you might want to just take a step back and rely on nothing but your partner and a Google search. While this could work, you might find yourself benefitting more by asking other people for tips. Your friends and family might have insider info from traveling to the same places you’re considering, and travel agents can remove a lot of the stress from your planning, leaving more room to enjoy the vacation.
Don’t forget important documents: You might be so focused on things like the hotel, the location, and the activities of your honeymoon that you forget important things such as insurance cards, identification, tickets, or any travel documents you might need. Keep everything in check, easy to access and organized. You don’t want to miss a flight because you’re fumbling around for your license or shell up a large sum of cash because you didn’t get any proper travel insurance policy.
Do look for deals: Creating a budget and staying with it is important for any trip, including a honeymoon. Weddings are expensive, so you want to make sure you don’t overdo it for the honeymoon. Look for special deals and accommodations that hotels and flights offer for people on a honeymoon, and even finding coupons for local restaurants wherever you’re traveling could cut back on some expenses.
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A few months ago, we covered the best way to see Italy in 10 days. Of course, this doesn’t take into account if you’re traveling with children. They bring an entirely new set of challenges to your vacation. Here are some tips to help you navigate Italy with your youngsters because it really is a kid-friendly destination:
Choose kid-friendly sights to see: You might want to see the vineyards of Tuscany, but your kids won’t. Instead, make sure that they have things to do that they are interested in. The Aquarium of Genoa is the largest aquarium in Italy at 33,000-square-feet and a kid fave and so is the Bergamo outdoor zoo in Lombardy. Of course, you can pretty much make any site interesting to see if you tell kids about it on their level. Even historic sites like the Coliseum can hold their attention when you tell them that gladiator battles used to be held there.
Make it a learning experience: Kids want fun, but you can make Italy a learning experience too. There are guide books specifically meant for kids to discover the area. Let them go through the books and pick and choose things they may want to see or do.
Get used to late meals: Kids have a tendency to eat early, but that’s not how they do it in Italy. Lunch is a typical time that it’s served in America, approximately 12:30 to 1:30, but be prepared that dinner time can be around 8 p.m. to as late as 9:30 p.m. In Sicily, it can go even later, so be prepared to keep your young ones fed between meals.
Speaking of meals, kids love pizza so make sure you take them behind the scenes of a real pizzeria. They may even be able to make their own pie!
Build in time outs: Not for being bad. Running from one site to another may sound like the perfect plan to jam in everything you can do in Italy, but you’ll end up with one overtired child if you do. Plan your Italy itinerary differently. Plan on seeing the Leaning Tower of Pisa one day and the Coliseum the next. Once you’re done sightseeing, plan in some down time like a gondola boat ride or a nice quiet meal. Seeing everything in one shot sounds great, but the kids won’t remember jam-packed itineraries. Instead, they’ll remember feeling exhausted and on a whirlwind. Pick and choose. It will capture the vacation in a much better way.
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Planning a honeymoon is supposed to be an exciting time in your life, but with so much going on around you, it’s easy to make some basic mistakes. Here are four of them that you should be careful of when planning:
Bad timing: You want a quiet time on the beach with your honey now that the festivities are over, but unfortunately you’ve planned your honeymoon smack in the middle of spring break season. Maybe your hotel is hosting a children’s dance show and the pool is busy with youngsters. Timing is everything and knowing the right and the wrong time to travel is important when planning a honeymoon. Don’t think it matters? Try planning a honeymoon right in the middle of hurricane season.
Leaving the next day: Traditionally, the wedding is held, the rice is thrown and the happy couple leaves the next day for the perfect honeymoon. It doesn’t have to be that way. You’re probably exhausted from all the planning and the partying and might even be a little cranky. If you plan your honeymoon for a few days later or even a week later, you’ll have some time to relax, pack accordingly and get ready for some fun. It’s okay to break from tradition. This is your honeymoon and you don’t want to be so tired that you won’t enjoy it.
Doing too much: Trying to jam too much into a short honeymoon can leave you even more exhausted when you get home. Instead, try to pick a few things you know you want to see or do while you’re on your trip and balance it with some much deserve rest and relaxation. If you really like the destination, you can always make a return trip for your first anniversary.
Splurging: Spending a lot of money on your honeymoon sounds logical, because after all your honeymoon is supposed to be a once-in-a-lifetime trip. So many couples will often blow their budgets on the trip for that very reason. Not the best thing to do. If your finances will take a hit, or if you’ll put a dent into your budget that doesn’t leave you room for other things you want to do as a couple or plans you have, then consider a smaller version of your honeymoon. If you’ve always dreamed of a two-week honeymoon to Fiji, then consider one-week instead and save the rest of the money for other day-to-day expenses if you need them.
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Packing for your honeymoon might seem easy – pack a bunch of clothes and you’re ready to go. Not quite. Before you close that suitcase, consider packing a few fun things just for the special occasion:
Travel games: Traveling can take a lot of time and there can be a lot of down time, so bring some fun mini versions of games to do on the plane or in the car. Scrabble, hangman, trivia games and even a deck of cards can help to pass the time away and fit in your travel bag very easily.
A surprise gift: What a great way to start your honeymoon than with a surprise giftyou’re your loved one (or more if you are feeling generous). One couple continues this tradition each time they go away and they’ve been married for more than 25 years. A little waterproof GoPro-style camera would be fun for the beach or for taking photos of activities you are participating in. Young couples use them on cruises and while they are sailing, snorkeling and on water slides, etc.
Sporty fun: If you and your honey are going to take any excursions or lessons, such as scuba diving or tennis, make sure to pack what you need for the fun. Before you leave for your trip, make sure that your resort or tour operator doesn’t provide your equipment before you fill your suitcase. If however, you need to bring extra gear – even sneakers or special hiking boots – be sure to pack them to you can get in on the fun.
Passion play: Let’s get right to it. Your honeymoon is all about fun in the sun (or snow depending on where you go), but it’s also about passion and sex. So why not bring some fun adult toys to get the fun going? Make sure you bring lubricant and condoms if you are not looking to get pregnant on your honeymoon. Then you can also bring some fun sexy card games or other accessories to enhance your bedroom excitement. Think about packing some sexy lingerie or underwear too. You never know where the night will take you!
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Heading to Italy and only have 10 days to visit the beautiful country? Don’t worry. There is still so much that you can do, but it takes a little organization.
First, decide what’s important for you to see. Is the Amalfi coast a must? Can you skip Rome, but you must see Tuscany? Anyone can give you tips on the best way to see Italy in 10 days, but if the places aren’t ones you want to see, it won’t matter.
However, if you are still looking to see the most popular sites in Italy, be sure to include Florence, Rome, Tuscany, Venice and Naples on your list.
Next, what’s your budget? A 10-day vacation Italy can put a dent in any budget, so you may need to choose your locations based on your finances.
Once you have a budget, a list of places to see and a timeline, you can start to put together your itinerary. If you still need a suggested 10-day itinerary for a trip to Italy, then here are a few ideas:
- Start your trip in Rome: Spend a couple of days visiting the country’s capital and make sure you see the Trevi Fountain, Pantheon, and the Colosseum.
- Head over to Vatican City: Here you should take a couple of days to see St. Peter’s Basilica and the Cupola di San Pietro as well as the Vatican Museum and the Sistine Chapel.
- Tour Tuscany: A trip to Italy wouldn’t be complete without a tour of Tuscany, which is known for its rolling hills landscape, sunflower fields and cypress trees. You can many natural parks where you can hike and bike through the region.
- Football in Florence: We call it soccer in the United States, but here you can see Italy’s favorite pastime up close. Fiorentina plays here, so make sure you snag some tickets. While you’re in Florence, spend a few days also looking at the Uffizi Gallery, one of the most famous museums in the world with collections of paintings of the fourteenth century and especially from Leonardo, Raphael, and Michelangelo.
There you go, a few days in each and before you know it, your 10-day vacation will be over and you’ll be planning your return trip to see more!
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